"If an activity is not grounded in 'to love' or 'to learn,' it does not have value."

There is one purpose to life and one only: to bear witness to and understand as much as possible of the complexity of the world - its beauty, its mysteries, its riddles.

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This is my ultimate to do list; things I want to get done before I die. Giving my desires their own home here seems right somehow.

101?

There are, not surprisingly for those of you who know me, more than 101 items on this list. I started this list years ago and have not yet recorded all of my completed items here. I might not ever get them on, too busy doing the things which remain.

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See the Synchronous Fireflies Mating Display in the Great Smoky Mountains

Do the Elkmont midnight hike without a flashlight through the millions of fireflies...

Jump Off A Bridge Tall Enough To Scare Me

Not just a little scary – really scary.

Spend At Least 3 Months Completely Alone In The Woods

Must spend three months without seeing another human being. Can have a pet.

Donate 50% of Annual Income to Worthy Causes

This one is technically never ‘done’. Philanthropy is all to often reserved...

Shower In The Desert Rain

It does not count if I am not naked, nor if it is dark.

Make Love

Anywhere and in any manner and with whomever I desire, without reservation,...

Go Skinny Dipping With Strangers On A Bright Sunny Day

Fuck the cover of night.

Have My Portrait Painted – Nude

It now sits in the private collection of the ex-boyfriend who took it when we broke up....

Live in Greece

For at least two years.

Dive Saint Lucia

Also visit Pigeon Island.

Dive Pulau Weh

Deep ocean trenches bring nutrient rich waters which support a diverse marine habitat...

See Park Guell in Barcelona

Also explore the art museums & architecture.

Give Birth Without Drugs

Well maybe aspirin, but no epidural, nothing prescription.

Watch the Sea Claim Venice During Aqua Alta

Also gondola, getting lost in the back streets, finding the cathedrals, learning about...

Visit all 50 Sates of the United States

My one OCD collection. One day business trips count.

Be Infatuated with Someone I Can’t Have

The one that got away – it would be a shame not to experience the sweet  frustratio

Fall Deeply Madly in Love with Someone

Nothing less than total surrender.

Mt. St. Helens Helicopter Ride with Volcanologist

There is not much point is seeing Mt. Saint Helen’s without a volcanologist to...